the downside of social networking

November 16, 2007 at 6:24 pm (write)

Today I finally changed my relationship status to “single” on Facebook, which I have been dreading since the breakup. I’ve heard the stories about what happens to the mini feed. On CNN they even covered a story about a college girl who didn’t know she had been broken up with until she saw it on facebook. The whole thing is just awful and may be a reason why people stay in relationships longer than they are suited too, to avoid a website declaring your singledom.

I did it anyway. When I got back to my profile, I saw, to my horror, the mini-feed with “Jessica is single” and a little broken heart next to it. I would have preferred “another one bites the dust” or “another step toward twenty cats.”

And I think they could have thought of something more original than the broken heart. Like a little ugly woman with a leg missing or a chair on fire or an empty bottle of bourbon or a single chopstick trying to spear a piece of sushi or a lonely meatball rolling off a mountain.

Now those would be more accurate. So it goes.

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josh keyes

November 16, 2007 at 2:50 am (Uncategorized)

Josh Keyes is my new New York style pizza. And anyone who knows me knows I would never ever make this statement without meaning it.

He does “… drawings and paintings that depict animals isolated in fragments of their natural environment, overrun with shards of man-made artifice and debris.”

Surreal, a little unnerving, and at times very tender. Lots of good stuff to see in here.

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